December 23rd, by Nick Notas 22 Comments. You and a girl are back at your place after a date. You sit close together. But sometimes, things are a bit more complicated. Many women are not nearly as aggressive or prepared. This happens especially with younger or inexperienced women. She may want to take things slower. You want to be proactive, take the lead , and then calibrate accordingly. Before a woman can even become turned on, she needs to be relaxed.
1. Make her feel sexually attracted to the way you are interacting with her
The sexual preferences of the fairer sex stretch far and wide, from the socially acceptable vanilla activities portrayed in Hollywood love stories to the dark and hidden desires only comfortably discussed in anonymous internet chat rooms. This endless variety means that anyone who claims to know exactly what every woman wants in bed is probably trying to sell you something, so I would never try. Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, much less, please. In a post-feminist society, you never know exactly what you should be doing.
2. Make it very clear that you find her sexually attractive
To send her into outerspace with gushing orgasm after orgasm? Quickly… Remember to check out my new step by step video program — Squirting Triggers 2. Firstly make sure you have protection close at hand. This means keeping a few condoms near to your bed. Condoms will stop STIs and prevent you getting her pregnant.
Updated: February 10, References. You have reached that point in your relationship where you want to take it to the next level. Some people think that sex is no big deal, but others see it as something they only want to share with an extra-special person. Although you never want to force your girlfriend to have sex with you, you can always soothe some of her fears and reassure her that you really are a person she can fully trust. After you do this, sex comes naturally. If you want to make your girlfriend want to have sex with you, show her she can rely on you by turning up on time for your dates, since someone is more likely to want to make love if they trust you.